Calling all control freaks

Calling all control freaks

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“By not trying to control the uncontrollable, we get what we thought we’d get if we were in control.”
~Martha Beck, Victory By Surrender
OK, so here’s a new twist for those of us who count ourselves among control freaks, recovering control freaks or aspiring control freaks. What if true control really lies in being able to let go?
As someone in hot pursuit of “letting go” for the past couple of decades, I’ve puzzled over this concept quite a bit. (Ironically, I can’t seem to let go of it!) What does “letting go” really mean?
Whether we’re talking about people, possessions, situations, dreams, or even suffering, I think the process must be somewhat the same. Not so much of a big, one-time decision: “I’m going to let go of  THAT, once and for all!”  But in truth I think it’s a day-to-day decision we make to live beyond our attachments.
It seems that letting go, like so many things, is a matter of starting small. One small decision at a time, we can teach ourselves to experience the events, situations and people in our lives without attachment — and free fall into the same big fluffy pillow of  contentment we were hoping to find by controlling things.